Pull the Plug on People Pleasing
Learn how to break out of your people pleasing patterns. Stop giving up yourself, giving up your dreams, your passions and your purpose in order to do everything for everyone else? Take back control.
do you feel overwhelmed, overworked and burnt out?
do you feel taken for granted and unappreciated despite everything you do for others?
do you feel stressed and frustrated that you can't speak up for yourself?
do you never have time for yourself?
Its time for you get get some of yourself back by pulling the plug on your people pleasing behaviour!
How can you live your best life when you give up on yourself, give up your dreams, your passions and your purpose in order to do everything for everyone else?
When you break out of your people pleasing patterns, work out what you really want and put boundaries in place, you give yourself the best opportunity to succeed.
Get clear on what your particular people pleasing behaviours are
Understand what you do and why
Learn to respect and prioritise yourself
Find your voice and learn to say NO
Identify all your hidden work and home time wasters and get tips on what to do about them
Identify boundaries you need to put in place and practice how to voice them
Reflection, awareness, goals setting and practice
There are many different self discovery activities included in the workbook. Some involve refection and self awareness, others are your actions plans and practice scripts to help your commitment and progress going forward.
They are not difficult or time consuming, but they are especially helpful and worth spending some time on. Skip them and you’ll miss the benefit of the self awareness and the practice that the changes will bring into your life.
Introduction
Why do you do what you do?
Top 10 ways to kick your people pleasing behaviours
Be intentional with your words
Prioritise yourself
Learning to say NO
Timing, Body language, Pick your battles & Demand Respect
Speak in silence & Cut the excuses
Go with your gut
What to do with all your spare time now
Goal setting
Getting rid of your work and home time wasters
Learning to voice your boundaries
Prevent goal derailment with boundaries
Using journalling to your advantage
Recap and wrap up
Where do you go from here?